If your problems start to affect you. I do not have to force him to act as a pillar to lean on me. To learn to solve problems and move forward on their own.
If your friend's problem started affecting the itself, you do not want to go against the pillar, he leaned on a finger snap. Make friends, practice solutions and moving forward.
If the problem of friends began to have a negative impact on your body, it does not need to maintain a pillar, and he was leaning down to solve the problem, a friend magic and move forward on their own