Conscious thought has always been that there is nothing that is permanent, fixed, there are happy there is suffering. It is not a happy time for lost time, not stuck ... There may not be a real pleasure, but they suffer less.
I was always conscious that nothing remains permanent, it would have a happy life together as a couple. I was struck when I was caught up in a long time ... probably not true happiness, but it suffers less.
Conscious thought that nothing fixed permanent health is suffering a couple. Happy times was not lost when suffering will not sink for a long time... May not real but suffering less.