If I met you before, he may very well may decide about my job in this time, or it may be, but I know that we have a duty to be responsible so we can't respond to each other. I understand
If I had met you before would be great. May make a decision about my job this time, or may have, but I know that we all have an obligation to be responsible. , so we can meet soon, I understand.
If I see you first, would be great. May decide about my job at this time. Or maybe, but I know that we have the burden of responsibility. So we cannot respond faster. I understand.