For a foreigner in my mom's idea is that the services she wants us to learn each other before and plan to marry, of course first. Afterwards, you can visit my home.
For foreigners, the idea of my mother, she is just like us to learn from each other to make sure. And certainly before the planned wedding. After that I went to visit my home.
For the Gentiles in the thoughts of my mother, well, she wants us to learn each other to make sure. Wedding planner and it first. Then we"ll pay a visit to my home.