If I have a child with you. How do I get out of life as soon as possible because I don't want to have problems with people in your way. I guarantee that you will not have a chance to see my page on the ball at all.
If I have children with you I get out of life soon because I do not have a problem with your home, I guarantee that you will never see me with my children.
If I have a baby with you. I get out of life immediately, because I don't want any trouble with people from home you. I guarantee that you will never see me face to face with you.