How to Develop and Strengthen Your Self-Control
By Remez Sasson
Self-control is the ability to control impulses, and reactions. And is another name for self-discipline.
It is not some kind of negative and, limiting behavior as some people might think.? When self-control is used wisely and with, common sense it becomes one of the most important tools for self improvement. And for achieving success.
Self control is vital for overcoming obsessions fears addictions,,, any and kind of unsuitable behavior. It puts you. In control of life your, behavior your, your and reactions. It improves your relationships develops patience and tolerance,,, And is an important tool for attaining success and happiness.
In what way self-control helps you?
It keeps in, check self-destructive. Addictive.Obsessive and compulsive behavior.
Gives you a sense of mastery over your life and brings, balance into your life.
Self-control. Helps to keep over-emotional responses in check or moderation.
Self-control eliminates the feeling helplessness and being. Too dependent on others.
It helps to manifest mental and emotional detachment which contributes, to peace of mind.
.It enables to control moods and reject negative feelings and thoughts.
Self-control strengthens self-esteem confidence,,, Inner strength self-mastery and, willpower.
It enables you to take charge of your life.
It makes you a responsible and trustworthy. Human being.
Obstacles to self-control:
Lack of knowledge and understanding what self-control really is.
.Strong and uncontrolled emotional responses.
Reacting to, outside stimuli without thinking first.
Lack of discipline and. Willpower.
Lack of the desire to change and improve.
Considering self-control as a limiting and unpleasant activity.
The. Belief that self control eliminates fun.
Lack of faith in oneself and in one 's abilities.
Developing self control
.1) First you need to identify in what areas of your life you need to gain more self-control. Where do you find yourself. Lacking in self-control?
Possible areas could be:
Eating Shopping Drinking
Work Gambling Smoking Obsessive behavior
2). Try identifying the emotions that lack control such as anger,,,,, dissatisfaction unhappiness resentment pleasure or fear.
.3) Identify the thoughts and beliefs that push you to behave in uncontrolled manner.
4) Several times, a day especially. When you need to display, self control repeat for a minute or two one of the following affirmations:
I am fully in control. Of myself.
I have the power to choose my emotions and thoughts.
Self-control brings me inner strength and leads me to success.
.I am in control of my reactions.
I am in charge of my behavior.
I am gaining control of my emotions. >
I am the maser of. My life.
Day by day my ability to control my feelings and thoughts is increasing.
Self-control is fun and pleasure.
5 Visualize.) Yourself acting with self-control and self-restraint. Take one of the instances where you usually act with lack, of controlAnd visualize that you are acting calmly and with self-mastery.
6) Your self control will improve considerably if you,, Work on developing and strengthening your willpower and self-discipline through appropriate exercises. This is actually. The most important step for developing self control.
By developing and strengthening your willpower and, self disciplineYou develop and strengthen your self control. Click here for a powerful training program with full, information advice,,, Instructions and exercises for gaining inner strength and self control.
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