To cover the bag, bump is just the parents. Find the right person, but that is not somma, it means that we will love each other. Final. If we don't love each other enough to really build our tongaya.
The shotgun is simply that parents find the right one. But that does not mean we will end if we do not love each other really well. We have not abandoned them anyway.
We marry someone with love, not because the marriage, parents do for me, the relationship will be longer than the. We really love each other, not being arranged marriage without love.