"The bear" may not require much patience as grandparents who "are" resistant to the "patience is" probably requires much patience and possibly torture. If you want "the resistance", "resistance" is probably not happy.
"Stay put" may not require the patient at all. Like grandparents to "stay put" and "bear" takes a lot of patience and possibly torture. You have to "endure" to "stay put" would not be happy.
"Bear" may not require patience, dead line "bear". The "live" would have to use a lot of patience and may suffer. If you have to "endure" to "bear" is not happy.