If you go to church. I'll go with you, but if I go to the shrine, but you don't want to go with me. It doesn't matter, it is not for me, and I'm not yae is expecting you to go with me or the kids.
If you go to church I would go to church with you But if I go to shrine But you do not want to go with me, okay, it's not important for me แa. And I do not expect that you or your children have to go with me.
If you go to church, I'm going to church with you; but if I go to the shrine, but you don't want to go with me. It doesn't matter, it's not just advisory for me. And I don't expect that you or your child will want to go with me.