เขาได้พบ คน ๆ หนึ่งที่อบอุ่น เป็นมิตร เป็นคนสอนให้รู้จักความหมายของชีวิต แต่แล้วเค้าก็พบว่า ผู้ชายคนนี้ไม่ใช่คนที่เค้าสามารถรักได้ ( he couldn't be that man I adored = เขาไม่สามารถเป็นผู้ชายคนที่ฉันรักได้)
He finds One is a teacher-friendly, warm, knowing the meaning of life, but then they would find that this is not a guy who wouldn't be able to love them (he couldn't be that man I adored = he could not be the man I love.)
He has found a warm, friendly person was taught to recognize the meaning of life. But then he found that This man is not a man who can love him (he could not be that man I adored = he can not be a man, I love it).
He met someone who is warm, friendly, and taught to recognize the meaning of life, but he also revealed that this man is not who he can love. (he couldn 't be that man I adored = he can't be that man I adored.