But today, you have not met me. And usually you will invite me to meet with you some time. But today, you did not do that. Which probably means you're still angry with me, more or less.
But today, you did not find me, and normally you will convince me to go with you when visiting a friend. But today you don't do it, that might mean you're still angry, I am not so much less.
But today, you do not have to be found and I usually, you will be inviting me to meet a friend with you when you don't have to do, but this day, which could mean you will be angry with me is still more or less