For me, the gift exchange is not about the death of the King. If you do not want to give gifts to me really, it's okay. You define an exception to come maybe it so makes me feel uncomfortable, I might be wrong.
For me it's not about the gifts of the king's death. If you do not want to make a gift to me, it really does not matter. Simulated conditions you set out to do, sometimes it makes me feel uncomfortable, I could not get.
For I exchange gifts not about which the king died. If you don"t want to give me a gift, really fine. The condition that made you made it too much to make me feel uncomfortable, I may be unacceptable.