To feel that we are not not not not beautiful, handsome, good shape, no commitment may not be wise or not is the same as the others, they make people feel unhappy in this life because of it but think about compared to the others.
That was why we did it. Not handsome, not white, not good, not good shape, not clever or charming as others made people think he is not happy in their everyday lives, but think about it compared to others at all times.