However, we can define and choose their own path in the future that Needs to be a way to do it depends on our own actions. Others can not define our future.
But we can customize and choose their own way in the future, if need be, however to get it based on our own actions. Anyone else unable to determine our future.
But we can determine and select the path for the future of my own. That is what you want to be, where to go. So it's up to the actions of our own and that no one else can determine our future.