Parents should encourage the child to solve manually, rather than management's problem. Also there should be a good example for good things, but the action by the child to see.
Parents should encourage children to solve their own problems rather than the problems of the children. It should be a good example to their children by doing good things for children to see.
Parents should encourage children to know the problems themselves instead of handling problems to you. Also they should set a good example to you by doing good things for you to see.