You send the message to me is better than a phone call for me because I can use the translation program to send messages but phone. I can't use English well enough to communicate with you.
You send messages to me it is better to call me. Because I can use the language of text messaging. But phoning I can not use English well enough to communicate with you.
You send a message to me better to telephone me. Because I can use a translator to the message, but speak on the phone I can't use English well enough to communicate with you.