Do you want me to understand you, but you do not want to understand me. You just want me to do what I like and do not want to let me do things that you don't like to. Without any reason. In addition to the "do not want to.
You want me to understand you, but you do not want to understand me. You just want me to do what I like and do not want to do what you do not like and do not like. For no reason other than "do not want.
You want me to understand you, but you don't want to understand me. You just want me to do what I like and don't want to let me do what you don't like the wood required by any reason than "don't want.