If you go to church. I'm willing to go with you, but if I go to the shrine, but you don't want to go with me. It doesn't matter, it is not a problem for me, and I'm not expecting you to go with me or the kids.
If you go to church I am willing to go to church with you. But if I go to shrine But you do not want to go with me, okay, it's not a problem for me. And I do not expect that you or your children have to go with me.
If you go to church, I am willing to go the church with you, but if I go to the shrine, but you don't want to go with me. It's not a problem for me. And I don't expect that you or your child will want to go with me.