I am interested and understand other people's feelings only with a sense of myself. Not so much, or too little Because if a lot of other people's feelings, we may make ourselves as the distressed.
I do understand the feelings of others. Is a sense of my own. Not much or too little If you care about the feelings of other people may themselves be suffering.
I care about and understand the feelings of others. I feel myself, more or less too. Because if you care for the feelings of others may make themselves as suffering.