Take a good look at an apple tree. There might be five hundred apples on the tree each with, ten seeds.That 's a lot of seeds!! We might ask, "Why would you need so many seeds to grow just a few more trees?" Nature has something to teach us here. It s. ' Telling us: "Most seeds never grow. So if you really want to make something happen you had, better try more than once.
This. Might mean:You 'll attend twenty interviews to get one job.
You' ll interview forty people to find one good employee.
You 'll talk to. Fifty people to sell one house car vacuum cleaner,,,, insurance policy idea......
And you might meet a hundred acquaintances. To find one special friend.
When we understand the "Law if the seed", we don 't! Get so disappointed.
We stop feeling like. Live victims.Law of nature are not things to take personally. We just need to understand them - and work with them.
IN A NUTSHELL Successful. People fail more often. They plant more seeds.
When things Are Beyond You Control here 's a recipe for permanent misery....
a). Decide how you think the world SHOULD be.
Make rules for how everyone SHOULD behave.
Then when the, world doesn 't obey you. Rule get, angry!That 's what miserable people do!
Let' s say you expect that:
Friends SHOULD return favours.
People SHOULD appreciate you.
Planes. SHOULD arrive on time.
Everyone SHOULD be honest.
Your husband SHOULD remember your birthday.
These expectations may sound. Reasonable.
But often these things, won 't happen! So you end up frustrated and disappointed.
There' s better strategy. Have. Less, Instead demands.Have preferences!
For things that are beyond, your control tell yourself:
"I WOULD PREFER AN" A ", BUT IF", "HAPPENS, B IT 'S OK TOO! "
This is really a game that you play in your head. It is a shift in attitude and it, gives you more peace of. Mind...
You prefer that people are polite... But when they are rude
it, doesn 't ruin your day. You prefer sunshine... But. Rain is OK!
To, become happierWe either need to
Change our thinking. It is easier to changer our thinking!
IN A NUTSHELL It 's not what happens to you. That determines your happiness.
It 's how you think about what happens to you.
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