If it is, select whether to live with anyone else, we need to choose someone who can take care of us and who we trust and who will not leave us to go even though it was dangerous.
If given the choice to be with someone. We had to choose someone who can take care of us and the people we trust and who will not leave us now, even if it was dangerous.
If I had to choose who to be with. We must choose someone who can take care of us, and we can trust and who will not leave us where even become dangerous.