Because if you want to marry me.According to Thai culture, you want to have a wedding dowry, with my parents, and you still want to become a debt with me again it's like I'm taken advantage of you too.
If you want to marry me as culture Thailand. You need to be a dowry to get married to my parents. And you also have a debt with me. It's like I'm taking advantage of you, too.
If you want to marry me according to culture. You must be the dowry to propose to my parents. And you have to owe with me again. It's like I take advantage of you too.